While hard data is scarce, participation in Muslim home-schooling groups has gone up. The nonprofit Muslim Homeschool Network now has several thousand likes and follows on its Facebook page. The group connects Muslim home-schoolers in Southern California by hosting events and providing resources, such as books and curriculum. Fatima Siddiqui, an MHN member, said the group also has a WhatsApp group that is now up to 150 members.
Muslim Homeschool and Education , a private Facebook group, now has more than 22,000 members, while another, Successful Muslim Homeschooling , has been followed and liked more than 13,000 times.
Since 2015, Kelly Tudor, in Texas, has run a Facebook group for Indigenous home-school families . In the past year and a half, that number has ballooned; there are now over 1,000 parents in the group.
“I had a lot of issues and there was a lot of incorrect information and stereotypes taught to us,” said Tudor of how her teachers taught Native American issues in school. “When we would try to inform the teacher, we would get called names.”
The two families profiled below came to home schooling for different reasons, but both families expressed disappointment with the public system and a desire to ground their children more firmly in their family’s identity and values.
The Gaddies
Before 2020, Helene Gaddie had never really considered homeschooling. But ever since the 6- and 9-year-old she’s raising were sent home at the start of the pandemic, she and her husband have been their primary teachers. The family, who lives on the Pine Ridge Reservation in South Dakota, has chosen a hybrid home school model – half a day of distance learning with the local school and half a day of activities and lessons arranged at home.
“I thought we were failing, but the boys’ grades are OK,” said Gaddie, 42, who is a member of the Oglala Lakota Nation. “They’re average.”
When the boys’ no-fee private school reopened to in-person learning more quickly than Gaddie thought was safe, she enrolled them in the tribally controlled public school she’d gone to as a child. The school continues to offer a distance learning option – three hours a day of instruction from a grade level teacher – and Gaddie and her husband take care of the rest.
“For our recess they get to go outside and practice archery,” she said. “They get to tan the hides that they make, make drums, work directly in the garden and be present.”
It’s also easier to participate in events on the seasonal Indigenous calendar, like the annual buffalo harvest or sacred site visits, that previously would have meant pulling the children from school.
The boys, who she refers to as her grandsons, or “takoja” in Lakota, are her nephew’s biological children. She sees their upbringing, steeped now in the traditions and language of their people, as a sure path to making them stronger individuals. “If you know your culture, if you know where you come from, you’re stronger,” she said. “You’re stronger minded. You learn better.”
Gaddie has thought deeply about the education of the youth of her tribe. In 2013, she, her husband and her cousin founded a nonprofit called Generations Indigenous Ways that offers after-school science programs and seasonal outdoor science camps.
“What we’re trying to do is revive our culture,” she said. “So it’s really hard having them in school anyway, because our culture is more diluted. These [schools] are in our homelands, our Lakota homelands here. But there’s no enforcement of language or kinship.”
“If you know your culture, if you know where you come from, you’re stronger.”
Helene Gaddie, hybrid home schooler
It’s not easy maintaining jobs, motivating the boys – “I don’t care about what anybody says, stickers work” – and making ends meet. They get free school lunches delivered, but the family receives no other outside financial support. She and her husband are both artists and Gaddie earns a modest stipend from their nonprofit. It’s not really enough, Gaddie said, but “we make it work.”
She’s not sure if she’ll continue homeschooling once she feels it’s safe for the children to return to school in person. She thinks she’ll let her 9-year-old make his own choice.
“He’s a normal wild Lakota boy,” she said, a smile in her voice. “He’ll adjust to anything.”
The Hidalgos Olga Hidalgo had been volunteering at her children’s schools for years by the time the pandemic hit. The mother of two, who lives in Florida and runs a mobile pet grooming business with her husband, considered volunteering to be the best way to play an active role in her kids’ education.
“I noticed the kids were not respecting authority,” Hidalgo, who is originally from Peru, said in Spanish, through an interpreter. “Many teachers were not motivated to teach the young people, and they felt like the students were not being respectful toward them.”
Even before the pandemic, her daughter asked to be pulled from high school. And once she transitioned to virtual instruction, Hidalgo’s daughter grew more interested in learning at home.
“It just made think my children had another option to learn at home without that hostile environment.”
Olga Hidalgo, home-schooler
Hidalgo’s son, meanwhile, struggled to complete virtual class assignments without a cell phone or laptop. Once he had the right technology, Hidalgo said he was exposed to inappropriate pictures on Instagram shared by other students.
“I had a friend who already did home-school,” Hidalgo said, “and when I went to visit, I saw how she was doing the schoolwork with her children. It just made me think my children had another option to learn at home without that hostile environment.”
Early in fall 2020, Hidalgo and her husband scoured the internet for curriculum and lesson plans that they could use at home to teach their kids. All four Early in fall 2020, Hidalgo and her husband scoured the internet for curriculum and lesson plans that they could use at home to teach their kids. All four Hidalgos love American history, and a dual-enrollment course allowed their 17-year-old daughter to earn college credit while sharing the class content with her brother and parents. The Hidalgo’s 14-year-old son also jumped at the opportunity to earn college credit early, and enrolled in communications and composition courses.
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The Hidalgos joined a home-schooling group at their church, where her children play the drums and piano in the band.
“Now they have even more friends — closer and more meaningful relationships — than they had at school,” Hidalgo said.
Although she hesitated to speak for the thousands of Hispanic and Latino parents who choose to home-school, Hidalgo said her culture is very family-oriented.
“We like our children to have a connection with parents and grandparents and extended family,” she said. “Home school is attractive because you get to spend more time as a family.”
The Siddiquis Fatima Siddiqui always knew she wanted to home-school her kids.
She became fascinated with the idea while studying for her degrees in childhood education, psychology and math education. She thought the idea “just went so well … with that natural bond between a parent and child.”
A former private school teacher and assistant principal in New York, Siddiqui began home-schooling her kids six years ago after moving to Diamond Bar, California. She represents a growing number of Muslim families who are forgoing the public school system.
Many of the Muslim parents who are now choosing to go this route, unlike those in the past, are younger, born and raised in America, public school graduates, highly educated, and more diverse. The lack of personal attention students receive in a public school setting, the possibility of encountering bullying or Islamophobia and a take on human sexuality and gender that many parents find too liberal, were among the reasons Siddiqui and others she knows in the Muslim community cite for choosing to home-school. The ability to structure a school day to include the five daily prayers and to incorporate Islamic knowledge and study of the Qur’an, the Islamic holy book, side by side with secular subjects like reading, writing, math, science and history were also appealing to Muslim home-schoolers who spoke with Hechinger.
“I felt like I would be able to give more of the world to my kids.”
Fatima Siddiqui, homeschooler
Siddiqui said she’s able to provide her kids with a “stronger Muslim identity” because they’re reading about Muslim characters. She can also help them apply Islamic thinking, and is able introduce principals and concepts of Islam into all subjects. For example, when teaching a unit on telling time, Siddiqui said she would incorporate verses from the Qur’an that talk about time.
For many parents, including Siddiqui, religion isn’t the only driving force.
“I felt like I would be able to give more of the world to my kids,” Siddiqui said. “Based on their interests, on their skill sets and help them become more well-rounded individuals by exposing them to a lot of different things at their level, at their pace.”
The mother of five has home-schooled four of her kids so far. Her high schoolers are now independent learners. One daughter is a dual-enrolled student at a community college and in a seminary program. Siddiqui is the primary home educator for her two younger children.
She said home schooling allows her to give her kids opportunities to “go really deep into topics.” When it was time to learn about the ocean, for example, they went to the beach. That way, Siddiqui said, “we’re learning about the ocean, not through a book, but we’re at the ocean, learning. We’re at the tide pools … we’re making learning not just theoretical, but practical.”
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At the same time, she said she is able to develop a stronger bond with her children by learning alongside them.
“You’re able to have deeper conversations, go deeper into a subject,” said Siddiqui. “If there’s a math lesson that needs to be repeated, it’s fine. We had to repeat a whole year of math and it was OK. We could spend the whole year on a topic and get really deep into it.”
Prior to the pandemic, and even during its first year, Siddiqui said many parents reached out to her, asking how to get started. However, this school year she’s noticed that some families who started to home-school in 2020, and even some veteran home-schoolers, put their kids back in public schools, citing issues related to mental health.
“The pandemic really took a toll on kids, mostly middle school and high school,” said Siddiqui. “It was difficult on parents. It was difficult on the kids.”
But despite that reversal by some families, Siddiqui said she expects home-schooling numbers to rise again in a year or two.
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